Good Day , My name is D Yvonne Rivers, I am a birth/first Mom who gave birth in 1973 to my son who was placed in adoption in Virginia . I searched for 45 years before finding him on social media in 2018. We have been in reunion since then. He has questions about his story that I have shared. When I gave birth , I never asked anyone to seal his birth records or hide from me being his mother . I always wanted my son to know me. We are buiding a realtionship and I hear him say , why can't he get his Original Birth certificate and he is 51 years old with children. He has a right to his own records. I am a Black woman and my son is a Black man, History in Virginia served as a place of slavery that slaves had no access to birth records. This is very traumatizing in 2024 to 'return" to those times. I started a podcast in 2021 , Birth Moms Real Talk interviewing hundreds of Birth/First Moms across the US and the Globe , none asked for closed OBC. We love our children . We do Facebook LIVE monthly with adoptees, birth/firstMoms and adopted Moms and over 250,000 listeners say the same thing . OPEN OBC in all 50 states . Pass This Bill

I am requesting your favorable vote in support HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES!

I am requesting your favorable vote in support HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES!

I am requesting your favorable vote in support HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES!

I am requesting your favorable vote in support HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES!

I am requesting your favorable vote in support HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES!

As an adoptive parent in Virginia, I urge you to vote YES on HB 2093 in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES! Sincerely, Kathleen Morris Montgomery County

As an adoptive parent in Virginia, I urge you to vote YES on HB 2093 in the upcoming House Health and Human Services Committee Meeting. HB 2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly advocate for treating adult adoptees with dignity, respect, and equality under the law, the same as non-adopted citizens of Virginia. This bill is very important to me and my family and I enthusiastically urge you to support HB 2093 by voting YES! Sincerely, Kathleen Morris Montgomery County

My name is Amy White Eyes and I am Oglala Lakota of the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation in South Dakota. Adopted in Virginia at birth in 1987, I was denied the right to be placed with my Lakota grandmother, which is a violation of the Indian Child Welfare Act. After a 15 year search, finding my family has brought me immense peace and a profound sense of belonging, allowing me to reconnect with my Lakota heritage and participate in sacred ceremonies. Now, I wish to register with my tribe, a fundamental right. However, obtaining my original birth certificate, crucial for tribal enrollment, requires a costly court order — only obtainable by hiring a lawyer. This bill would allow me, like any other Virginian, to access my birth record and claim my rightful place within Oglala Lakota Nation. I urge you to support HB2093 and ensure that all Virginians have equal access to their birth records.

As an adult born and adopted in Virginia (in 1961), I am writing to express my unwavering support for HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) and request your favorable vote. HB2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons like me, born in Virginia, to obtain our own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly believe adult adopted people should be treated with dignity, respect, and as equals under the law to non-adopted citizens of Virginia. The current separate process for adult adoptees is lengthy, inefficient, discriminatory, complicated and unfair, as I know from personal experience. I am personally affected by this bill and I strongly encourage you to support HB2093, by voting YES! Your affirmative vote will help advance adoption policies towards a more inclusive and compassionate direction.

Many states have opened their adoption records, it is time for Virginia to do the same. I am fortunate to have identified my birthmother through DNA, too bad it was 3 months after her death. I first filled for birth information in 1999 and in 2014 the Commonwealth of Virginia Department of Social Services closed my request. 15 years.

Adoptees have a right to or birth certificates just like anyone else. This bill is a small step in that direction.

As a first mother, I strongly urge progression of this bill through committee. The often espoused argument that as first mothers we need "protection" is simply not true. The vast majority of us were never promised, nor desired, anonymity. Adoptees deserve to know their roots. To deny them is profoundly unjust.

I think every person should have the right to view their original Birth Certificate, if they choose to do so. It is every person's right.

Everyone should have access to their original birth certificate

To whom it may concern - Thank you for allowing the space for Adoptees and their families to share their voices. Adoptees are specifically left voiceless through the adoption industry processes, though we are the ones who are most in need of agency. Having access to accurate medical records is enshrined in the American rights for all, but those adopted. This causes adoptees to not only had additional unknowns about their origins, but costly and dangerous gaps in their medical knowledge. I had over a year and thousands of dollars spent to try to diagnose something that we would have known I have a genetic predisposition to experiencing had I had access to my medical records. However it wasn’t until after years of pain, medical complications (in which I also experienced multiple losses of pregnancy), and costly testing and surgeries that I found my biological mother and gained clarity from her own medical history that would have informed my care much faster and before such harm was done. Please pass this bill and put an end to at least one of the harms inflicted upon adoptees in the process of this multi-million dollar industry that too often results in the exploitation of minors and those in vulnerable positions.

Access to accurate vital documents is a human right. I was adopted after the death of a biological parent and didn’t know that my mother would be erased from my birth certificate and replaced with my step parent. There is no way for me to access the original document or reverse the process. No child can give consent to permanently alter their identity. Please support adult adoptees’ access to their original vital documents. Thank you.

I urge you to support and assist in the passage of HB 2093 to restore the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. Adult adopted people should be treated with dignity, respect, and as equals under the law to non-adopted citizens of Virginia.

I support HB2093. I am an adoptive parent. I would want my children to have access to their original birth certificates. One of my children was placed in a closed adoption. I believe she still has a human right to this document.

As a natural mother, I write to you in support of this bill. I was never promised, requested, or wanted anonymity. Adoptees (and their descendants) deserve the truth of their origins.

Thank you for this opportunity to submit a statement of support. The Family Preservation Project supports HB2093. Having access to one’s original birth certificate is a civil right that should be absolute for ALL citizens.  The Family Preservation Project is a parenting resource and adoption education website originated and administered by a birth/first mother. The Family Preservation Project strongly supports adopted persons’ rights to access their original birth certificates without restriction or qualification.  The Family Preservation Project is administered by a birth/first mother who was never promised confidentiality and has had many exchanges with other birth/first mothers and expectant parents considering adoption who were also never promised confidentiality. The promise of confidentiality has never been and is currently not a standard practice amongst adoption facilitators. This is a point referenced by The Family Preservation Project when educating expectant parents who are considering adoption.  I trust that birth/first mothers speaking for themselves, rather than being spoken for, will resolve any myths of supposed promised confidentiality. Once resolved, I trust that the fundamental right to access a citizen’s original birth certificate will be of paramount concern.  Thank you for your consideration.  Sincerely,  Katie Burns  Administrator, The Family Preservation Project  TheFamilyPreservationProject@gmail.com

My name is Elise Lewis and I am a former resident of Virginia. Having lived in Virginia for 15 years, I deeply care about Virginia and Virginia's adult adopted people. I currently serve as the President of the Louisiana Coalition for Adoption Reform. LCAR partnered with Rep. Charles Owen pass HB 450 to restore the right of access to Louisiana's adult adopted people which went into effect August 1, 2022 as Act 470. It has had a tremendously positive response. HB 2093 would allow adult adopted people to be treated with dignity, respect and as equals to non-adopted citizens in Virginia to receive their original birth certificate on demand like every other citizen. I am writing to ask your support and for a YES vote on HB 2093 as presented without additional amendments. Thank you.

I am a birth mom who gave birth to my son in Virginia in 1973. It is important that all persons receive the same access to birth records. My son deserves to have access to his original birth certifcate just as all other non-adoptted Virginians . This is about equal rights in offering access to original and not amended birth certificates. My son wonders at 51 years of age about his origin by not having his Original Birth Certificate . Support HB 2093 It is simply the right thing to do .

Adoptees deserve the right to access their original birth certificates and medical records. These should never be sealed or their access restricted Signed, adoptive parent

Writing IN SUPPORT of HB 2093 Dear Members of the Virginia House HHS Behavioral Health Subcommittee: My name is Renee Gelin and I am writing to you as the Founder/President of the national 501c3 non-profit grassroots organization named Saving Our Sisters - SOS, Incorporated. SOS is a family preservation focused organization that I was driven to create after I personally experienced too late what adoption really meant for my son and my family. SOS’ mission is to support all members of expectant and new families considering adoption. We are committed to helping them make fully informed decisions based on fully disclosed information that so many other families in the past, including my own, have learned too late. We are dedicated to ensuring that a permanent solution of adoption is not applied to temporary crises, and most importantly that the decision is not based on omitted, partially omitted or misinformation of adoption facts. Mothers who are only intending to make the best possible decision for their child deserve at least that. You also should know that the thousands of Mothers who have connected with SOS over the last 13 years who were/are considering relinquishing their children for adoption ARE NOT made fully aware of the sealing of their child’s original birth certificate and all the implications this will have on their child as they grow to be an adult. There is most definitely never a ‘guarantee’ of ‘privacy’ and in fact there are promises for ‘openness’ and that their family will ‘have a relationship’ with the adoptee through ‘open adoption’. Most Mothers are only entertaining adoption because of the level of openness being promised. So why do the laws for adoptees to obtain the truth of their origins not support the openness that is so widely promised and touted by adoption entities and professionals in today's 'modern' adoptions? It's time for the laws to catch up. Consistent with the mission and goals of Saving Our Sisters - SOS of full disclosure, truth and transparency in adoption, we support HB2093 for adopted people who most likely never had a choice or a voice in their adoption. Respectfully, Renee Gelin, Founder/President Saving Our Sisters - SOS, Incorporated A family preservation first organization. www.savingoursistersadoption.org

HB2093- please allow adults 18 and over to have access to their original birth certificate. It will make a huge difference in their lives and allow for closure.

My name is Andrea Martens. I'm a resident of Fauquier county Virginia. On behalf of the adoptees in my life I urge you to vote yes on HB2093 that will grant adult adoptees access to their original birth certificate along with their birth parents' contact preference form. Everyone deserves to know their own story, and I know from my friends that lack of access to their own personal history can make dealing with their adoption so much more difficult! It is time for Virginia to join the other 15 states that have moved to correct the inequality in rights created by our states' dual birth certificate system created for antiquated perceptions of adoption. Thank you, Andrea Martens

Writing IN SUPPORT of Adult adoptee access to original birth certificates Dear Members of the HHS Behavioral Health Subcommittee, My name is Renee Gelin, and I am a mother who relinquished a child in 2011. I am also the founder of a national non-profit organization called Saving Our Sisters. SOS is a family preservation focused organization committed to helping ensure families make informed decisions before applying a permanent solution to a temporary crisis. We provide direct action via mentoring, education, resources and information including details of how an adopted child’s original birth certificate may be sealed upon adoption finalization depending on the state. A fact that the majority of adoption entities omit when working with expectant families considering adoption today. We have helped well over 3,000 families make informed decisions over the last 10 years. I am considered a ‘newer’ first/birth mother. I am from what society knows to be the ‘open adoption’ era - where everyone involved in the adoption of the child knows each other. Where the pregnant mother picks her unborn child’s adoptive family and who she builds a relationship with prior to her child’s birth. Where ‘openness’ via visits that include participation from both immediate and extended adoptive and natural/biological family members occur. Where adoptive and natural/biological family members know each other’s names, addresses, birthdays and family histories. Where we all - the child’s collective family - put the child first. Because that is what is best for him. When I relinquished my rights to my son in that hospital room that Saturday evening in March 2011 surrounded by my son’s father, my oldest daughter - my son’s sister, my sister - my son’s aunt and his new adoptive parents I had never been informed that my son’s original live certificate of birth would be sealed away and kept from him even after he turned 18. But after learning about the sealing of his original birth certificate many months later, it all of a sudden made sense as I remembered that the hospital records person who came to my room to complete his birth certificate information did not allow me to put my son’s father on his birth certificate. When I asked why, she replied, ‘We just don’t in these situations.’ Our son, brother, nephew and grandson is not a secret. He did not enter into any contract. He did not agree to be treated differently from his peers. He did not agree to relinquish his family medical or genealogical heritage. In fact, he can’t - it’s in his blood. I love our son with all my heart, and never ever would I, his first/birth /natural/biological mother, want to deprive him of anything or have him be treated differently than anyone else. I never believed that I would retain any rights or control over his right to obtain his original live certificate of birth. My son will be an adult one day, and I feel very strongly that he should have the same rights as the children I am raising as well as all other non-adopted adults. Please do not treat Virginia adopted persons as perpetual children and allow others to control their ability to exercise their decision to obtain their own original live certificate of birth - once a legal vital record. Sincerely, Renee Gelin Founder/President Saving Our Sisters - SOS, Incorporated Mobile: 727-744-6468 Email: sosadoption247@gmail.com Website: https://www.savingoursistersadoption.org

I am writing to whomever it my concern. Please pass, HB2093 Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate; contact preference form. As the birth father of an adoptee that has united with my daughter I have learned from her how important it is for her to know her history.

I am writing to express my strong support for Virginia House Bill 2093, which advocates for granting adult adoptees access to their original birth certificates. As an adoptive parent, I believe it is essential to uphold my child’s human rights and ensure that all adoptees are treated with dignity and equity. Adoptees are four times more likely to attempt suicide and six to eight times more likely to struggle with mental health issues and substance use disorders compared to their non-adopted peers. Research has shown that much of this stems from maternal separation trauma and the enduring effects of being denied access to their own identity. It is a basic human right to know who you are and where you come from—a right that most Americans take for granted but is routinely denied to adoptees. The practice of sealing original birth certificates and issuing amended ones that list adoptive parents as birth parents is, at its core, a misrepresentation of reality. I did not give birth to my son, and his amended birth certificate falsely claiming otherwise erases the truth of his origins. This not only undermines his right to access his full history but also perpetuates the commodification of adoptees by treating their identities as transferable documents, akin to car titles. At a bare minimum, if society continues to treat adoptees in this manner, the least we can do is ensure they have access to their original birth certificates. Denying this access sends a harmful message about the value of adoptees’ rights and humanity. This issue extends beyond personal stories—it is a matter of equity and justice. The United Nations recognizes the right to identity as a fundamental human right. Yet, in the United States, adoptees in the majority of states are denied this right due to outdated policies rooted in secrecy and stigma. Only a small fraction of states allow adoptees full access to their original birth certificates, often under restrictive and arbitrary conditions. We have a moral obligation to rectify this injustice. Passing Virginia House Bill 2093 is a crucial step in affirming adoptees’ rights and addressing the trauma and inequities they face. It is time for us, as a society, to recognize adoptees as full and equal members of our community, deserving of the same rights and dignity afforded to others. I urge you to support this vital initiative and stand on the side of human rights, equity, and transparency. Sincerely, Brenda Chapel Adoptive Parent

Please allow adoptees access to their original birth certificates As an adoptive parent I feel it’s very important for adopted to have access to this vital information about themselves. They shouldn’t have to fight to receive something that other citizens easily get to obtain. Thank you.

As the husband of an adopted person and resident of Richmond, VA, I am writing to express my unwavering support for HB 2093 (Adult adoptee access to original birth certificate) and request your support when this (hopefully) comes before the House after successfully passing the Health and Human Services - Behavioral Health Subcommittee. HB2093 simply restores the right of adult adopted persons, born in Virginia, to obtain their own original birth certificate without hindrances. I firmly believe adult adopted people should be treated with dignity, respect, and as equals under the law to non-adopted citizens of Virginia. I am personally affected by this bill and I strongly encourage you to support HB2093, as written, by voting YES! Your affirmative vote will help advance adoption policies towards a more inclusive and compassionate direction. Sincerely, David W. Roberts Richmond, VA

I was born in Norfolk, VA and relinquished for an adoption that was finalized when I was 6 months old. In accordance with Virginia code, at the finalization of my adoption, the law required that my original birth certificate, which recorded the facts of my birth, to be taken from me and sealed. This was solely due to the fact that I was adopted. Not relinquished, but adopted. My birth certificate was not sealed at the request of my birth mother. It was not even an option she was given, because neither termination of parental rights documents or Virginia law, offer or promise anonymity to a parent from their own offspring - since it is not a guarantee that would be legally possible. My mother did not want my identity or hers to be kept from me, instead that was forced upon us by the law. Obtaining one’s own birth record is a basic right that all other groups of people have except adopted persons, and a right that Virginia-born adopted previously held. In fact, sealing birth certificates was intended to keep sensitive information private from public view, not to keep a person from knowing their own identity. Virginia HB2093 does one simple thing - give adult adopted persons the unrestricted right to obtain their own original birth certificate. Restoring this right is essential to ensuring equality for all adult adopted persons and I ask for your favorable vote on this bill.

Re: bill 2093 Adult adoptees should have access to their original birth certificates. I am an adoptive parent, and my children have archival copies of their original birth certificates. These records will allow them to research their birth families and to know historical information about themselves.

I am writing to urge you to vote “Yes” on HB2093, a critical bill that would reinstate the right of adult adoptees in Virginia to access their original birth certificates. This legislation is about fairness, equality, and respect for every individual’s right to their personal history and identity. Currently, adult adoptees in Virginia face significant barriers to obtaining the vital statistics document that reflects the factual information of their birth. This restriction creates an unnecessary inequity, as individuals who are not adopted have unfettered access to their birth certificates. HB2093 seeks to correct this imbalance by ensuring that all Virginians, regardless of their adoption status, have equal rights under the law. By passing HB2093, Virginia would join a growing number of states that have already recognized the importance of this issue and taken steps to restore adoptees’ access to their birth records. This bill does not infringe on anyone’s privacy but instead provides adoptees with the dignity and autonomy to understand their own stories. I urge you to support HB2093 and ensure that adult adoptees in Virginia are granted the same legal rights as every other Virginia citizen. Your “Yes” vote would affirm Virginia’s commitment to equality and human dignity. Thank you for considering this important issue. I would be happy to provide further insights or answer any questions you may have.

Please reinstate adoptees’ rights to access the original vital record of our birth. Currently, adopted people are the only people for whom the state falsifies an identity upon adoption and withholds our original records from us. Please treat adopted citizens like every other citizen. I was born in and adopted in Virginia and this directly affects me. Thank you.

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OBC access is not about search and reunion Many adopted people are not interested in pursuing a search. Instead, access is about obtaining our state-generated and held document of our birth, something the Not Adopted don’t even think about. There is no state interest in keeping original birth certificates sealed from adult adoptees to whom they pertain nor does the state have a right or duty to mediate and oversee the personal relationships of adults. The debate on the release of OBCs to its adopted citizens is small v large government issue. Small government should win this one. Adopted people in 15 states have unrestricted access to their OBCs Not one single negative report about unsealing has been published. Access has been normalized. Adoptees are treated just like the Not Adopted and like the Not Adopted no one denies that they have a right to those records and information. Please vote DO PASS on HB2093. It’s the right thing to do.

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I am a lawyer and national expert on the issue of adopted people and their right to their own original birth records. I urge a favorable report on HB2093. I have attached a more comprehensive letter about this issue, including resources that illustrate how HB2093 would work and how today's current approach to this issue is outdated and invasive to everyone impacted by the adoption.

Committee Members, Please support HB2093 Adult Birth Certificates for adopted persons I am a birth mother to a lovely daughter born in May 1968. I was NOT promised anonymity. I did give up my parental rights to not interfere with her or the adopted parents. When HB2093 passes Virginia will be the 16th state to do so. My daughter FOUND ME years ago and we have a friendly relationship. We were able to confirm our status as well as her dad through DNA which is now available to everyone. Her dad chose not to have contact and both of us have honored that. My point being an original birth certificate will not keep folks from searching. The certificate allows adopted folks have the same rights as every other person. Thank you for your consideration to pass HB2093 unanimously.

Good Afternoon I was adopted in Fairfax County in 1964 and ask for your support granting adult adoptees access to our original birth certificates. Adoptees just want equal access. On a personal note, as a mother and grandmother, this effects my descendants as they too are denied family history documents. Respectfully Kerry McKendry

As a Virginia resident and former adoption social worker, I am in full support of this bill. All Virginians deserve the same access to their birth certificate. Please consider the valuable insights of professionals in this field and adoptees themselves on this matter. Lead the way in joining other states in making this important change for those who deserve it. Thank you.

In 1967 I had the misfortune to be an "unwed" mother. At that time, such a status made me a social pariah. I had no job, no money, no place to live, and no help from my divorced parents. The baby's father was not available to marry me. So I was incarcerated in a Florence Crittenton "Home for Unwed Mothers" for six months until I gave birth to what would be my only child. Social workers indoctrinated me with the idea that I was doing the best thing for my child by giving him to a married couple. Social workers chose the people who would parent my son and change his identity; we never met, I was not offered a choice, I had to promise that I would never interere with the adopting parents but no one promised me ANYTHING. It was assumed I would never speak of this because it was literally unspeakable for me to be an unwed mother. I wholeheartedly support the right of any adopted person or any relinquishing mother to have access to the REAL birth certificate with the name of the first mother on it. As I said, I was never promised privacy; only the adopting couple got that. Every human being has the right to know their true identity, their genetics, their biology, and the identity of their original parents. Please pass this bill. It would be cruel not to.